The beloved wedding "shoe game": a reception favorite.
I’ve been photographing weddings for 10 years, and one thing that never goes out of style? The shoe game!
I’ve seen it played at elegant black-tie weddings, intimate backyard ceremonies, and everything in between. No matter the size or style of your wedding, the shoe game is always a crowd favorite at the reception!
I highly recommend brainstorming some fun, unique questions that reflect your relationship, but if you need a little inspiration, I’ve got you covered with a list of go-to questions!
My biggest advice? Keep it lighthearted, engaging, and not too long—leave your guests laughing and wanting more, not checking their watches! 😉
How to Play the Shoe Game at Your Wedding
Here’s how you can play it and keep the mood light:
Get Ready
- Sit back-to-back with your partner. Each of you will need to hold one of your own shoes and one of your partner's shoes. Make sure your guests can see the shoes clearly!
Ask Questions
- A host or MC (could be a friend or family member!) will ask a series of questions. These can range from lighthearted to more personal. For example:
- “Who’s the better cook?”
- “Who’s more likely to forget an anniversary?”
- “Who made the first move?”
Answer the Questions
- For each question, raise the shoe that best represents the answer! If you think you’re the better cook, raise your shoe. If you think your partner is the forgetful one, raise their shoe. It’s fun to see if you both have the same answers, and even more fun when you don’t!
Keep It Fun
- The goal is laughter! Don’t be afraid to get silly or cheeky with your responses. The more relaxed you are, the more fun your guests will have watching.
The shoe game is a simple way to break the ice and add a little playful energy to your reception. Plus, it’ll be a moment you and your guests will never forget!
Questions for the game:
Funny & Lighthearted Questions:
Who made the first move?
Who is the better driver?
Who spends more money shopping?
Who is the messiest?
Who is more likely to cry during a movie?
Relationship & Everyday Life Questions:
Who says "I love you" more?
Who is the better cook?
Who takes longer to get ready?
Who is the early bird in the relationship?
Who always leaves dishes in the sink?
Sentimental & Sweet Questions:
Who is more romantic?
Who gives the best hugs?
Who remembers anniversaries and special dates first?
Who is more likely to plan surprise dates?
Who fell in love first?
Unexpected & Fun Questions:
Who would survive longer on a deserted island?
Who is more likely to talk their way out of a speeding ticket?
Who snores the loudest?
Who is more likely to forget where they parked the car?
Who has the crazier family?
10 backup questions
Just incase you didn't like any of those ideas, heres a few more!
Who would be more likely to talk their way out of a speeding ticket?
Who is more likely to ugly cry during a heartfelt movie?
Who would be better at surviving a week with no phone or internet?
Who is more likely to get lost even with GPS?
Who would be the first to befriend a total stranger at the grocery store?
Who has the more ridiculous guilty pleasure TV show?
Who would be more likely to start a random dance party in the kitchen?
Who is more likely to pull a prank on the other?
Who would be more likely to forget where they parked the car?
Who has the most unexpected hidden talent?
and I hope your wedding day is everything you've dreamed about!! The shoe game is just one of many fun things you can do at your reception and its such a fun photo op too!
